Too often we have a false sense of responsibility and we try to take care of everyone else, and neglect ourselves. There is nothing wrong with helping people but if you are out of balance and you allow people to control you and make them happy first, you need to quit that and take time out for yourself. Take care of yourself. If you are going around upset and discouraged it is because you have made the mistake of taking a false sense of responsibility. Quit trying to be the keeper of the universe, you can’t force people to make the right decisions so just give them over to God.
So make a choice to put yourself first and make yourself happy.